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Thursday, March 28th
Topic: Keeping regret from my Relationship VII
Passage: Proverbs 25:24-28
Focus: v24
"It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house"
Lets move onward in this series to check the dangers and pitfalls that exist around courtship that can lead to the actual fall of the relationship. They are better avoided than managed.
Ex: this is someone you have been in relationship with earlier. It is good you cut all ties as much as possible. It is best to be open in courtship, once you tell your current partner about your ex, its easy to keep away. You dont have to hide phone conversations or calls or even lie when the truth is already open. And ofcourse the first question a woman should ask a man before saying yes is: who are your exs? Tell me about them! And when the relationship starts, you ask again should he tell you the half-truth the first time. It is also reasonable that the male ask as well. If there is any ex at all that you tagged safe friend, you still need to keep at arms length but the ones that keep checking on you should be forgotten. This is applicable to marriage as well.
When your partner keep talking about his ex after some warnings and a reasonable length of time to change with no improvement, I implore you to cause a matter out of it even if that will mean an end to your relationship. It will surely not crash your relationship if your partner has no skeleton in the cupboard.
Body defilement: light touch, hugs, kisses, caresses and the likes are the cravings of your flesh which is driven by intimacy. Privacy and intimacy is good but no man kisses or caresses in the open space so, the atmosphere is the basic antidote to this. Victims of this need to re-dedicate themselves to God and set out measures because a city without a rule is easily broken down.
Bed defilement: this is the target of the devil of any God ordained relationship. You can't jump to this stage at first attempt; constant body defilement is the only route to it.
Co-habiting: whether short term or long term are all sex traps. There is no alternative to this except total avoidance. Co-habiting in form of what is called couples life is unacceptable.
May the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you.
PYP: LORD, break me from any addiction (name it) that is hampering my relationship with you in Jesus Name
Thursday, March 28th
Topic: Keeping regret from my Relationship VII
Passage: Proverbs 25:24-28
Focus: v24
"It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house"
Lets move onward in this series to check the dangers and pitfalls that exist around courtship that can lead to the actual fall of the relationship. They are better avoided than managed.
Ex: this is someone you have been in relationship with earlier. It is good you cut all ties as much as possible. It is best to be open in courtship, once you tell your current partner about your ex, its easy to keep away. You dont have to hide phone conversations or calls or even lie when the truth is already open. And ofcourse the first question a woman should ask a man before saying yes is: who are your exs? Tell me about them! And when the relationship starts, you ask again should he tell you the half-truth the first time. It is also reasonable that the male ask as well. If there is any ex at all that you tagged safe friend, you still need to keep at arms length but the ones that keep checking on you should be forgotten. This is applicable to marriage as well.
When your partner keep talking about his ex after some warnings and a reasonable length of time to change with no improvement, I implore you to cause a matter out of it even if that will mean an end to your relationship. It will surely not crash your relationship if your partner has no skeleton in the cupboard.
Body defilement: light touch, hugs, kisses, caresses and the likes are the cravings of your flesh which is driven by intimacy. Privacy and intimacy is good but no man kisses or caresses in the open space so, the atmosphere is the basic antidote to this. Victims of this need to re-dedicate themselves to God and set out measures because a city without a rule is easily broken down.
Bed defilement: this is the target of the devil of any God ordained relationship. You can't jump to this stage at first attempt; constant body defilement is the only route to it.
Co-habiting: whether short term or long term are all sex traps. There is no alternative to this except total avoidance. Co-habiting in form of what is called couples life is unacceptable.
May the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you.
PYP: LORD, break me from any addiction (name it) that is hampering my relationship with you in Jesus Name
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